Destination guides for the FatFIRE traveller
Where to go, and what it actually costs.
Practical guides — geography, getting there, when to go — paired with what the r/fattravel community actually experienced once they got there. People spending $10k–$100k+ per trip, sharing what happened, good and bad. Dated, specific, and honest about what didn't work.
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The guide layer
Geography, getting there, neighborhoods, when to go, entry requirements. Factual and orienting — background research, not opinion. Where AI is used, it's confined to this layer and disclosed as such.
The community verdict
What r/fattravel actually said, compiled from real trip reports. Quotes are verbatim — nothing paraphrased, nothing generated. Every brief shows the post and comment counts it came from so you can judge the signal strength yourself.
What makes it different
Everything is dated — "April 2026", not "recently." Honest negatives are included on every brief. Featured properties aren't there because of a commercial relationship. Affiliate links, where they exist, are disclosed inline.
Most-discussed destinations
All 75 →City Break
For the caliber of city that it is, I don't understand how NYC's FAT hotel scene is so shit.
Multi-Destination
We were just in a Four Seasons in Mexico and I was missing my own bidet at home.
City Break
I find a tipping fee at an ultra premium hotel in London to be frankly quite embarassing and I wouldn't stay there as a matter of principle.
City Break
Outside of Aman and some smaller boutique hotels, everything here is extremely outdated and doesn't even come close to options found in London, Paris, etc.
Multi-Destination
Tipping in Italy is really egregious and they’ll actively solicit now in several spots.
Multi-Destination
Heck, even fortune 500 companies in Asia or Japan don't put their employees/clients in Tokyo's FAT hotels, that should tell you enough haha (though there's a large cultural element).
All destinations
North America 8
Mountain & Ski
Just a heads up to anyone planning a trip this winter to Aspen, if you’re planning to stay at the St.
Beach & Resort
The only one consistently incredible is Rosewood Las Ventanas in Cabo so we go there every year.
Beach & Nature
3) drop in to the cultural center which helps give a greater understanding to Hawaiian culture and the big island.
Beach & Nature
We did FS Maui and FS Ko Olina this year on two separate trips and had similar feelings at Ko Olina (especially compared to Maui).
Multi-Destination
We were just in a Four Seasons in Mexico and I was missing my own bidet at home.
Wine & Culinary
We were advised to stay at Bardessono because Napa 4S apparently wasn't up to par with the usual 4S standards.
City Break
For the caliber of city that it is, I don't understand how NYC's FAT hotel scene is so shit.
Beach & Luxury
Some hotels will tell you their WiFi won’t work with baby monitors (if it’s not password protected usually) and because of FS Palm beach I now know that’s not true and essentially they’re lazy 🤣 because they sent their engineer to our room to set it up so it would work, took him like 5 minutes.
Caribbean 5
Beach & Island
I finally accept this as the new normal after bad experiences with top tier villas or suites at FS Anguilla, Rosewood Mayakoba and Rosewood Carlyle.
Beach & Island
Got married at Sandy Lane in Barbados, the Rolls Royce to take the bride from the lobby to the ceremony was $1000USD.
Beach & Island
I agree with the person that said a lot of places in America, Caribbean and Europe (peak season) have gotten ridiculously over priced.
Beach & Luxury
I saw this video on insta of a woman that went to St Barths for 10 ish years and she's basically saying it's this massive continuous FOMO happening to everyone.
Beach & Island
Stillwater is also invested in the luxury Amanyara resort in Turks and Caicos and in 2014 invested in Change.org.
Central America 2
Nature & Adventure
Also, idk if there's a lot of flight options to go down to costa rica but there are some truly EPIC spas in costa rica's rainforest.
City & Nature
Misool in Raja Ampat, Tswalu in South Africa, Arijiju or Ol Jogi in Kenya, Isla Secas in Panama, Cristalino lodge in the Amazon.
South America 4
City Break
Went to Buenos Aires for the first time this year and highly recommend staying in Recoleta for a first visit.
City Break & Nature
I haven’t been to Medellin, but was in Bogota and Cartagena earlier this year (as two women traveling together, not a big group) - private security definitely would have been overdoing it.
Adventure & Nature
For me it’s the places that involve more physical activities so like Patagonia, Dolomites, or really remote destinations that require flight/boat transfers.
History & Nature
I felt like I was in heaven. - hiking Machu Pichu at sunrise… spiritual - doing the adventure pods in Peru… hiking then sleeping over a cliff at 10k elevation - jumping off the wall of our air bnb into lake como with some of my best friends.
Europe 24
Coast & Islands
Our recent boutique in Amalfi area was probably the best service experience we’ve had in years.
City Break
I was in Amsterdam with friends a few years ago and while we rented an apartment we thoroughly enjoyed our dinner @ Restobar Prins & Aap in the hotel.
Coast & Islands
And snorkeling with giant sea turtles and sea lions - first time seeing the view of Capri at Caesar Augustus after a grueling 30+ hour travel day.
Coast & Islands
I have luckily never been so desperate for a split of mediocre champagne as to pay $85 for it.
Multi-Destination
Imagine thinking France is a failed state because you happened to visit during the world’s biggest event and found it to be “too crowded”.
Coast & Luxury
Like you can go to Costco and buy something that feels like you're wiping your bum with a freshly laundered towel, but can these hotels be arsed to shell out an extra 50 cents a roll for something halfway nice?.
Coast & Islands
Private yacht charters in the Greek islands is the way to go especially with how many tourists they have been experiencing.
Nature & Adventure
There are tons of great properties that are independent from Deplar Farm in Iceland to Arielles at Versailles.
Multi-Destination
Tipping in Italy is really egregious and they’ll actively solicit now in several spots.
City Break
If you can, I would stay over night in Lisbon for your arrival and transfer to douro valle the next day.
City Break
I find a tipping fee at an ultra premium hotel in London to be frankly quite embarassing and I wouldn't stay there as a matter of principle.
Coast & Emerging
For me, I find Montenegro to be a much better destination than Croatia but I suppose it is all personal.
Beach & Nightlife
On a side note,if you go to Mykonos and take a day trip to Delos (major archeological site) you'll be amazed how they care for the cats.
City Break
Outside of Aman and some smaller boutique hotels, everything here is extremely outdated and doesn't even come close to options found in London, Paris, etc.
Multi-Destination
TL;DR I’d hop on booking this out with some friends/family before prices go up and Portugal’s popularity continues to rise.
Coast & Islands
Then another day you get a luxury Italian boat picking you up from Capri for a full day boating adventure before dropping you off in Positano.
City Break
Earlier this year we had a horrible day travelling to Prague, nothing went according to plan and we were super stressed.
City Break
I broke it down that way to pay my guides in Rome and to pay my guides in Amalfi Coast.
Coast & Scenic
We should vigorously avoid the toxic tipping culture to expand outside US In santorini our hotel was full of Americans who randomly give 20 or 50 bills to waiters walking by just doing their job.
Beach & Coast
At the top end the most disappointing place I ever visited was Costa Smeralda in Sardinia.
Mountain & Luxury
What sets it over other spa experiences is that it is completely private, and the view of the Swiss alps is just unbelievable.
Wine & Culture
Edit: Now adding hours later for those that joined late - I do not own a castle in tuscany.
City Break
Definitely was *not* a thing for us a couple of weeks ago in Venice (Gritti / St Regis).
City Break
Park Hyatt Vienna: during checking we talked about how much my wife is excited to see the city, they booked a surprise horse carriage ride through old town, on their expense.
Middle East 3
City Break & Luxury
Concierges in Dubai and UAE in general are used to receiving outrageous requests, especially from Emiratis.
History & Adventure
Nowadays it seems like everything is an Insta destination (saw a bunch of influencers posing in ridiculous outfits at Petra).
Culture & Nature
If you want unique, off the beaten path, and nature forward, highly recommend looking into Oman as a non-obvious option.
Africa 9
Safari
Try looking at andBeyond and their lodges in Botswana and beyond, they’re one of the best in Africa and provide white-glove service for planning and every step of your travel once you’ve landed in Africa.
History & Culture
Yep - Countries where violence and leering/uncomfortable situations towards women are prevalent and in some cases almost unavoidable even in the most metropolitan of areas are just generally off my list even if they are place that are interesting/worth seeing otherwise - Egypt, India etc.
Safari
I made a comment on this a couple of weeks ago on why I would not chose a big name “luxury” travel agent to plan our Kenya trip.
Culture & City
For example, in Marrakech the FS and Aman aren’t the golden standard for the destination, are they large players yes, golden standard? not necessarily.
Safari & Adventure
Komodo island cruise (Aman has a boat that does it - havent done it with them though) Rio Carnival Burning Man Huelmul treck in Argentinian Patagonia Havent done but is on my bucket list: galapagos cruise (small boat) Holi in India 4x4 in Namibia.
Safari & Wildlife
The one he was most stoked about was Joakim Noah at the Retreat in Kigali, because my husband is a Chicagoan so bumping into a player from his favorite team while thousands of miles from home was so exciting for him.
Beach & Island
Sarah literally called me on my cell phone one day to chat about some of the ideas I had (since I like to plan trips myself as well) and then helped book and take care of us while we were in the Seychelles.
Multi-Destination
Try finding hotels rich in history -- two that come in mind immediatly is the Ritz Paris and La Residence in South Africa or Belmond Mt Nelson.
Safari
To give you guys a primer 101 - the Serengeti is a huge national park in Tanzania, 12,000 sq miles.
Asia-Pacific 15
Multi-Destination
Even Australia too....the payment process in restaurants is they charge the card at the table and rarely have a tip option in the machine.
Beach & Culture
Don't want to name names but some ppl just wanna feel like they are better than others on this sub, hence the "Alila Bali is not FAT" comments.
City Break
A concierge in Bangkok got us into the 2nd best restaurant in the world at the time, and best in Asia on no notice.
Adventure & Culture
I landed in Paro Bhutan and finally felt like I could breathe again (literally).
Culture & Wellness
We’re also considering Amanpuri + FS Chiang Mai or Golden Triangle for next year.
Multi-Destination
Heck, even fortune 500 companies in Asia or Japan don't put their employees/clients in Tokyo's FAT hotels, that should tell you enough haha (though there's a large cultural element).
Culture & Wellness
My wife and I were planning a trip to chill in Kyoto for a few weeks, and we figured we'd stop by Osaka for a few days.
Beach & Island
At Soneva Fushi in the Maldives, they will set up a tent on an empty sandbank, where you get the privilege of sleeping (with the wild crabs that inhabit the island) for $2,000.
Nature & Adventure
I’m ok to miss out on deals (now) and I’ve already done that big “once in a lifetime” trip, (safari) so for me it’s more Europe, assorted islands and Australia/New Zealand, none of it any more pressing than another.
Beach & Resort
Dinner scenes at Rosewood Phuket and spa/lobby/entrance was also actually shot at a few different Anantaras.
City Break
I asked for a baby bottle of milk for my son (2 or something at the time) flying premiere with the whole family from SINGAPORE to PARIS (long ass flight) The male flight attendant pointed to the whole plane saying “well If the whole plane asked for a cup of milk, would I have enough milk?.
Culture & Beach
I have wanted to do India or Sri Lanka for a while now and once my kids get a bit older I will definitely check it out.
Multi-Destination
One of my favourite stays was Trisara in Thailand and they gave us a huge number of complementary things.
City Break
The Italian restaurant at the Aman Tokyo in Q4 last year was the most embarrassing meal i’ve seen anywhere in years.
Multi-Destination
We recently stayed at a small hotel in Vietnam and you could see the owners charm and care in every deatail.
Pacific 3
Beach & Island
We had a pool light out at the FS Bora Bora and they were going to upgrade us if they couldn’t fix it within the day.
Beach & Island
It’s things like the $20 for a $4 small Fiji bottle, the $70 for a $30 hamburger, or the $25 side of French fries that makes me roll my eyes.
Beach & Island
French Polynesia-- direct flight from SFO to Tahiti and same time zone as Hawaii.
Data compiled from r/fattravel community posts and comments. No content has been modified or paraphrased. Corpus reflects April 2026. Source note and post counts appear on each brief.